Tributes
William
Renwick
Bill and I spent our formative years in Yellow Dog, along with a lot
of other great guys-Bill Bono, John Kohler, Alan Snyder, Dick Bofinger
and many more. I will
always consider it to be special to have considered him as my friend.
I left the Worthington area shortly after the 7th grade and
was only able to see Bill one more time prior to his passing.
This is my loss. I
certainly wish now that I would have made more of as effort to see him
more often, even living so far away.
The universe lost a really nice guy.
My heart goes out to his family and friends and strangely I
will miss him
Dick Beers/November 12, 2009
William
“Quanny” Renwick
Class of
1958
Unfortunately, I cannot claim to have been a
friend of Bill Renwick or even say I
have any personal memories of him from my days at Worthington
High School, but I truly was an admirer of him.
I was in eighth grade
when he graduated in 1958, but I have some distant memories of having
heard that he had been working
out with weights with some other fellows from Buffalo Valley. You see,
it was in the summer of 1958 that my friend Paul Poloskey and I
discovered my brother Walter’s barbell set in my basement.
At that time, anyone who “worked out” would get my
attention.
But that was the last of my memories of Bill
until many years later when I crossed paths with his son Jeff. A few fellows and I who had remained interested in weight
training set up a gym in a small building on Race Street. The building
later became known as “The Shack.”
Jeff joined our group and I am sure I asked him about his
father and whether he still had any interest in lifting, but still I
had never had any personal interaction with Bill. Bill would later
join our group of lifters, but it was after I had moved to Butler and
did not frequent the building often to workout, so other than knowing
he was working out again we still had not had a face to face meeting
in the arena we both enjoyed, the world of weights.
There were over the years some occasional brief
meetings and I would inquire as to whether he was still lifting. For whatever reason, Bill Renwick had become a larger than
life person to me, maybe even some type of hero.
Although there was only a
five-year difference in our ages, it felt like I was meeting
someone who was from a different place in time.
I can still remember meeting him at a small restaurant in East
Brady a few years ago. Susan, my wife, and I drove up to East Brady to eat at a
restaurant just off the bridge known for its fish dinners and
sandwiches. Bill, Carolyn and another couple came in the restaurant
and Bill and I exchanged hellos.
That is all there was to it, but that brief interaction remains
etched in my mind.
No, there are no ball games, hunting trips or any
other activity that I can tell you Bill and I enjoyed together, only
some brief meetings over the 50 years since he graduated from
Worthington. The news
about his health challenges were made known to me at the monthly
breakfast the class of 1959 has the last Thursday at King’s
restaurant. The news was shocking, not Bill “Quanny” Renwick, it
couldn’t be true, but sadly was.
He was at that time in the Butler Hospital, so it was
convenient for me to stop and see him.
There he was, an “iron man,”
a term used to describe men who worked out with weights,
looking quite weak and vulnerable.
I stayed for a short time, but made an attempt to tell Carolyn
and him how much his life made such an impression on me without ever
having any meaningful conversation with him.
My wife often asks me about my attachment to
Worthington and the days spent at Worthington High School.
Bill “Quanny” Renwick is one of the many reasons.
I could go on with many stories about the people who impacted
me from those school days, but for now Bill is at the top of the list.
Whether it was merely passing his home on Cherry Street or
hearing someone refer to “Quanny,” a name I
never felt I had a right to call him, since I was only an
admirer not a close friend, something would wake up in me.
Maybe it was the strange nickname “Quanny,”
but when I was in his presence for brief moments or heard his name I
always felt this man was something special, which the love expressed
to his family during his final days assured me that William
“Quanny” Renwick was indeed a special person, who came from
a little area known as Worthington.
Bob Adams/October 31, 2009
A Tribute to
Shirley
Mae Claypoole Solada
June 25,
1946 - April 5, 2009
Shirley lived in the heart of life every day with
intensity, in everything she did, everywhere she went, with everyone
lucky enough to know her leading some to call her a force of humanity.
Perhaps that’s why she loved life so much.
It expressed her own sense of oneness with the world, her zest
for and curiosity about life, her belief in the constant need for
compassion and enlightenment in our dealings with each other.
It was that zest that made all of us leave our encounters with
Shirley with more energy than we brought.
And so, Shirley would understand that our hearts are breaking, even as
we celebrate the wondrous, rich life she lived to its fullest, staying
with us as long as she could.
Being at work everyday, making Christmas presents every year, enjoying
life with her husband Dan, raising her children, loving her
grandchildren and great grandchildren, going to King’s with her
friends, growing up on the farm, crocheting and making things to give
away she was our Shirley a passionate, brave and joyous spirit with
laser-like intelligence and a thousand-watt smile and laugh.
Oh, that smile and the infectious laugh that acted like a GPS.
Where ever you were, if you heard that laugh you knew who it
was.
Ever democratic, endlessly curious and caring about the people in this
world if you were ever out and about with Shirley there was always
someone coming up to talk to her or you would hear someone yelling
from afar “Hey
Shirley” and that thousand-watt smile would appear.
She always had the time to share with you.
Everyone who knew Shirley soon discovered that she redefined the word
amazing. Most everyone
who crossed her path utter the words, the most inspirational and
remarkable person I’ve ever met in my life.
All of us that knew Shirley are members of the wonderful Community of
Shirley Solada.
It’s an elite membership we cherish, whether we first knew her in
elementary school or later in life, some have known her for 62 years
and some for only her last days.
Shirley’s wish was to pass the torch of her full-color life to all
of us and to encourage us to seek balance in our lives and to be
touchstones for each other and for humanity.
As we continue to share joyful, inspiring and funny moments from
Shirley’s life, we will be reminded to live our days as she did,
creatively, enthusiastically, spontaneously, passionately and never
selfish, always caring about and for each other and looking at
ourselves and making our lives right.
Going about our daily lives, may we find opportunities, large and
small, to carry out her wish. In
this way, we can honor her life, as she honored ours by being with us,
by teaching us to know the heart of life.
Shirley would not want us to be devastated with her passing.
She requested that we live life to the fullest and always
remember, as she was while she was on this earth, she will continue to
be everyone’s angel no matter who you are.
Nancy Claypoole Prewitt
A Memory of Jack Bower
May 14, 2007
Thank
you so much for letting me know. My heart is very sad even
though
I have not seen Jack or spoken to him in 47 years. He and I were
part
of that little band of innocent 5 and 6-year-olds who walked into Miss
Hogg's first grade class in the old building at WWF school in the fall
of 1948. We were the last first-grade class to do so; the
"new" school
was being competed at that time and we moved into it I believe about
the
time we returned from Christmas break.
Probably half of that class stayed together for our entire 12 years of
primary and secondary education and graduated on the stage in the gym
on a very warm Tuesday night, May 24, 1960. I never saw Jack
again, but kept tabs on all my classmates through relatives in the
area and knew
that Jack was doing what he always said he would do - raise horses on
a
ranch in Montana. I trust his life was full and that those he
leaves
behind will find comfort in knowing he is now with God. I'm
personally
so grateful that I grew up in Worthington, PA and was privileged to be
shaped by the good people who were a part of my formative years there.
Rest in peace, Jack Bowser, WWFHS Class of '60.
Nancy (Flick) Serene
A Tribute to Daniel Young
Class of 1959
July
16, 2005
Nutsy
Lives:
I
was saddened to learn from Larry and Al that Dan Young
died this week. Although I hadn’t seen him or talked to
him in ages, as with many of our childhood friends, the
sense of his continued presence in my memory kept his
companionship and friendship alive.
Nutsy and I were buddies – buddies in the context of
growing up in the fifties. We played ball together, we
were in the band together, we hung out together.
Yes, his name was Daniel but we all called him Nutsy. In
these days of political correctness, calling someone Nutsy
is seen as demeaning and offensive. But he was Nutsy
because he was different – a free spirit, a guy who
sometimes did unusual things, a clown. We called him
Nutsy because the word described our friend and companion;
and he wore the nickname proudly.
Growing up, Nutsy was one of those kids that are all
gangly with their bones held together loosely with sinew.
He seemed to be ‘double jointed’ and could contort
himself into positions and shapes that we ‘mere mortals’
could only marvel at. When he walked his limbs seems to
flail about with abandon. But he was a good ball player,
could run, ride bike and climb trees with the best of us.
He simply had his way of getting the job done.
As buddies we often hung out at each other’s home –
sometimes just the two of us but often with other buddies.
I remember when several of us decided to build a cabin in
the wilderness that was Nutsy’s back yard. We had been
talking about building a tree house, kind of like the
Swiss family Robinson, but finally succumbed to our
limitations and began building on the ground in the
unmowed field area of his parents property. We gathered
up a bunch of scrap lumber, scrounged up our dad’s tools,
and set about building what turned out to be simply a
lean-to in which you could pretend you were ‘roughing it’.
Flush with success, we decided to sleep overnight in our
rustic retreat. Sometime after dark, we heard a thumping
sound that shook the walls. Needless to say, we were
scared (at least I admit I was – now!) but bravely grabbed
our flashlights and peered into the darkness. There we
saw, of all things, my mom and dad standing in the field
grinning at us. When I complained, Dad said that we were
making so much noise we were a public nuisance. He
claimed he could hear us at the store nearly a quarter
mile away. And what were we doing to create this
nuisance. Would you believe we were singing? Yes, of all
things that we might have been doing in our rustic
retreat, we were actually singing stirring songs like ‘The
Marine Corps Anthem’ and ‘Anchors Away’.
Like a lot of my friends, Nutsy and I played pool at
Steffeys Barber Shop. Nutsy wasn’t the greatest pool
player but, like everything else he did, he did it with
intensity and in his own style. John Steffey had
organized an eight ball tournament and we drew lots to see
who would be our first opponent. My first match was to be
against Nutsy. Even though he was my buddy, I have to
admit that I was pleased that he would be my first
opponent – because I was sure that I would win and then go
on to become the 8-ball champ of
Worthington
. Nutsy won
the coin toss and chose to shoot first. He folded his
fist around the tip end of the tapered shaft of the pool
cue and proceeded to prepare to ‘break’. Yes, you’re
right. His form was unorthodox. It almost seemed comical
to see him sliding the cue back and forth between the
pointer and middle finger of his left fist. With a
surprising intensity, he struck the cue to ‘break’. The
cue ball bounce off the one ball, went around two corner
cushions and rebounded into the rack striking the eight
ball in such a way that it went straight into the side
pocket for an instant win. Nutsy threw the cue on the
table, yelled a mighty war whoop and ran out of the
building laughing. I stood there in disbelief realizing
that I had lost without ever having a chance to play. But
we were still buddies.
On another occasion after playing pool at Steffeys, I was
walking up
Main Street
past Paul Reed’s house with Nutsy
and a couple other friends. We were just talking and
horsing around. Suddenly Nutsy and I were into it! Words
were exchanged. Pushes were traded and the battle was on.
Although I was bigger than Nutsy, I was faced with a
formidable opponent. He was bent forward at the waist
looking at the sidewalk and his arms were windmilling
rapidly whacking me on the arms, the shoulders, the head.
It was like being in a whirlwind and I admit I was
totally befuddled. Cooler heads intervened. The battle
was over as quickly as it had begun. And we were still
buddies.
Three weeks ago we had our all class reunion at
Worthington
and I had a marvelous time talking with
friends,
some of whom I had not seen for over forty years.
But
Nutsy wasn’t there. I talked briefly with a couple
of people about Nutsy and resolved to follow up and see
him again. Someone said that they thought Nutsy was in
the hospital so I decided to wait until he got home and
then I would follow up.
We all have many, many acquaintances but fewer good
friends. And the friends we have in whom we can confide
our hopes and dreams as well as our fears and worries are
even fewer. Most of those confiding friends are from
childhood or college. Having such a confidant in adult
life seems rare. I am fortunate to have such a friend
that I met through my business activities. Ed, like Nutsy
and a few others, is a person that I can talk to about
life and family. We often talk about trying to make sense
from this crazy world we work and live in. He told me
that he categorizes his sins or failings in two ways. One
ype of failing occurs when you try to do something
(hopefully the right thing) and fail. The other type of
failing occurs when you fail to even try to do something
you believe is right and good. He believes the second is
more hurtful. If you try and fail, you usually have the
satisfaction’ of trying and usually can seek forgiveness
from whomever you failed. But when you fail to try, you
find yourself in a situation that you often are prevented
from trying to rectify. My not seeking to talk to Nutsy
is one of these.
Yes, Daniel Young died on July 13. But Nutsy lives on in
my heart and memories.
Take care of yourselves and don't miss a chance to talk to
someone who is special to you.
Dick Henry (’59)