OLD RING-NEW FRIEND
Eileen (Claypoole) Hawk
The last weekend in June,
2005 was a sentimental and nostalgic time in the community of
Worthington, Pennsylvania and in the lives of all who had ever been a
student at Worthington West Franklin School. With much effort and
dedication on the part of a number of former students the fourth
school reunion was held at the site of our school, in conjunction with
the celebration of the town’s sesquicentennial.
My story of remembrance
begins long before that date and year.
It had begun 54 years
before in the spring of 1951. The end of the school year was in sight.
It was time for each member of the class of ‘54 to order the class
ring of his or her choice. Following tradition, I ordered my class
ring.
Well…that summer I got
married. Then came fall, and the beginning of
the next school year. I remember looking longingly out the window of
our little three room bungalow in the woods above Craigsville with
mixed feelings. The world as I had known it was moving on without me.
Soon the rings arrived and
it was time to pay for and pick them up. The figure
of $35.00 rings in my
memory, although I am not positive of that figure. Whatever the cost,
it was a lot of money for a young couple just starting out.
It was about that same time
that I heard of a new girl that came to Worthington West Franklin High
School and would be joining my former classmates. She, not being among
us the previous year, had not ordered a class ring. Long story short,
she bought the ring I had ordered and as far as I knew then, that was
the end of that story.
Where did the years go? How
many of the days of those years can we bring back to mind?
Two thousand five was the
fourth high school reunion, and I, fortunately, have been able to
attend all of them. At the first one in 1988 (you remember that
blistering hot day). I briefly met Helen Travis for the first time,
putting together the name with the "new" girl who, so many
years ago had done me the favor of buying the "ring".
Fast forward to the fourth
reunion, which to me was so special, since many members of my family
were able to attend.
It wasn’t long before I
ran into many old friends, classmates and relatives I hadn’t seen
for a while. I also had the opportunity to talk to Helen Travis again.
The subject of our common
bond came into the conversation, and to my surprise,
Helen calmly said she
wanted me to have the "ring". Did my heart stop? Fortunately
for me, if it did, it immediately started again. I was so moved, I
could hardly believe it. "Why would you do that? Are you sure you
really want me to have it?" Helen, so generously said she could
no longer wear it because of irritation caused by wearing jewelry.
(What do you think? Was that the reason? I think she is a generous and
loving person).
That was Saturday. Everyone
seemed to enjoy the day - taking pictures, reminiscing, and talking to
friends from way back when. Helen and her sister both marked their
finger with black marker, so Helen would not forget the ring the next
day.
Then, came Sunday. She did
not forget. She brought it and ceremoniously handed over to me the
ring that I had ordered so many years ago, but had never seen. As I
looked at it for the first time, several things crossed my mind. The
most obvious was, the ring had not been put it a drawer and forgotten.
No, Helen had worn it for many years. The next thing as I looked
inside the band, I noticed the initials ZEC.
Yes, those were my initials
in the ring. So you see Helen Travis and I, Zelda Eileen
Claypoole Hawk have had a
common bond all these many years and I consider myself to have a new
lifelong friend.
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